Lost, confused and fighting for my marriage

[elvencat]

I hope going to a therapy session or marriage weekend can help. At least he's willing to try that. I just hope for your sake he doesn't go just to blow it all off and say the suggestions would never work.

My H, too, is against anything to do with a "religious" based feel to it. And I agree with him, but unfortunately in our area many of the programs I might be able to convince him to go to are religious based.

I hope you can find something that'll be good for you no matter what he gets out of it.