New thread. Feel very much that things are beyond salvation in terms of M, but trapped in it legally for another 27 months. Separated since bomb. Wife and OM still going strong albeit in a slightly bizarre relationship revolving around 1 weekend in 4 together and very little else beyond phone calls. All corners telling me to move on and get on with life, and I'm trying to do so. No positive signs from WAW that I can see.
Dating and enjoying the company and attention, but not seeking any more than dinner and drinks.
Not entirely sure where I'm going from here, except onwards for myself, alone, waiting for the separation papers to land on the doormat on our first wedding anniversary.
Thought I'd test the waters in a new forum, just for fun.
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.
