Oh, she does use "our" and "we" now in sentences. Small change, and does talk about upgrading portions of the house with me. Not wanting to read into too much, but perhaps she does see a future with me but doesn't want to say it directly to me. All options are on the table, but one may be looking a little better, although yesterday's conversation was emotional and didn't help.
Learning the lesson of controlling emotions, and thinking before speaking. I'm getting better and better, but I'm not sure about what I can tell her and what I can't.
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4