OK I get that. I need to come across more confident. I'll work on that.

A question: Tuppy suggests strict NC when you separate. Do you agree and if so, then what do I say when she asks why we can't just be friends? I just told her because it hurts too much.

And if she does leave, what if she comes back to the house? How should I handle that?

I guess I'll have to think about how to divide up the kids time and the property now and make a proposition to her about it.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.