Well, since he is the dad that's why I went there. It's relative to both of us.
That said, all the walk aways are doing a horrible thing to their families and I've seen plenty of nasty women do it.
I am thankful that I can't relate to that.
I am thankful to be on my side of the fence, not theirs. When the nights get long and lonely this is what I think of. I would rather be heart broken and whole and have a relationship with my family..... than broken, angry, aliented, a person people will shake their heads about for years to come.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too