The fact that my spouse feels as though she didn't have a part in the breakdown. She says how furious it makes her when I say that both of us had a part in getting us to this point
That's how she feels, validate it. Those are her feelings. It's OK she is angry, it's actually good. Anger means she's still connected and cares, she's conflicted, and is seeing if you can stand it (testing you). You want her directing this at you.
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the way she thinks she know people and their motives.
You changing causes her conflict.
Show her good behavior, a great husband, partner, lover, friend and have fun. My W felt challenged by my changes and growth, it's threatening to the status quo when someone changes dramatically. Neither one of us wanted to go back to the old M. Find solutions to keep moving forward. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
