mmmmm something strange has just happened, and I am struck dumb. ex has never been down my garden path, on dropping son off he always sits in the car, a time or two if I have been out in the garden he as got out of the car and hung over the wall to chat, but never step one foot in the garden gate. remember when son got a new tv last birthday and I had to go out and help son in the house up the stairs and everything, ex didnt even to step over the line then. all this not contacting me and playing the a$$hole with son, then all of a sudden this evening on dropping son off home, he as given son his old computer chair, due to the fact I suppose that the wheel as dropped off sons own chair, what as gob smacked me is the fact that ex got out the car carried the chair, walked down the path and put it through my front door and into the hallway, wow maybe he thought i wasnt in, I wont mention it and I will let it ride, its just strange where he all of a sudden found the courage to come so close to my home, he normally phones me and sits 10 feet away in the car, brave he is getting or what, lol