Check out the second post on this thread. I just gave her a bunch of links.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2000623#Post2000623

This is the one on reconnection.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=190969&page=1

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I think she is in replay and is cycling right now. I'm praying she gets some kind of guidance from someone or something to help set her path. Right now she's just adrift and going through the motions in life.
Re-read the 6 stages. I think she may have passed through replay. The question is whether she will cycle back to it again.

Me-70, D37,S36