I did want H to come to the appointment providing I could be strong and treat him as the 'friendly neighbour who got me pregnant' (ha!). I wanted to continue to show him my "I've walked away" side but "am High Rd enough to include you in appointments etc".
I also had my coach's advice in mind to validate him as the Dad.
And, er...I suspect I aslo tacked on the invitation in case he rejected the arvo tea offer.
I did persue a bit with the arvo tea offer, didn't I? Thanks for being honest!!!!
