Jac, I just read your entire thread & I really think you should at least draft up some sort of email letting him know that you still love him and still want him to come home if he ever decides to go that route. So what, if he says no. He may say no, but then the seed is planted & who knows what may happen down the road. Right now, he DOESN'T KNOW he is welcome to come home. You need to tell him that if you ever want him to think about it.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10