2 weeks left to DB

[newmama]

oh yeah and when you mention that BIL might be getting accustomed to the status quo- you might be right. When my friends and family learn nothing has changed they don't exactly ask how I am or want to talk to me about the situation. It's like "same old same old- she is not cracking, she's doing fine."

I don't think it means your BIL has accepted what your H is doing though!!!!