Piano I suspect you are right about the vets- I haven't seen them on any of your threads (Gatsby and BD as well!)

People didn't know what to tell me or say either. Just "hang in there, focus on the baby, maybe WH will come around when S is born..."

What would you like them to say? Do you want comfort? I am asking honestly.

Who will be there to help you when your D is born?

About the tea- just ignore it completely. You offered (i.e. pursued) and he wasn't interested. So no expectations, no reaction to him...let it go. Better not wish him happy birthday either! SHEESH!

Do you want your H to go to the hospital appointment?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004