still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

and I said, "what, I was going to chain him up? He's LEFT!".

lol! Yeah I used to get the old "did you give him a choice? Did you tell him you would move on? Did you tell him there was no going back if he left? Did you tell him you would start dating?"

Duh people--they think magic words would have been the answer. And I had to roll my eyes at the dating because like an 8 month pregnant woman will start dating? How about a new mom of a 1 month old? 2 months? 3? See my point....WH subconsciously knew I was stuck and "safe." til now!