Thanks again - everyone's advice here is in quite contrast to the DB coach I am using, which seems to follow the book a bit more closely by having a no pressure wait and see approach. I am really confused here by what course of action to take - they both seem to make sense and have good points.

So if I intend to collect more intel, voice recorder and a key-logger, this will obviously take some more time to collect and put in play - so maybe my thought of laying low but be proactive on the intel gathering may be the best I do to develop a more concrete case when presenting to the OMW - whether or not they've painted me into a corner - hard evidence is going to be hard to dispute by the OMW?

My thoughts anyway - ??


Me 49
H 46
M 23yrs
T 25 yrs
Bomb Drop 4/2010
S22/D19/D15/S13

Same roof, different beds

"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."