I love this thread & have read it a couple of time.

So I'm resurrecting it to ask the big guns for help. H & put all of our cards on the table today, I'm 99% sure it was the right thing to do.

Please let me know if I set up boundaries without being demanding, and gave a timeline without issuing an ultimatum.

The convo was emotional & broke several DB rules, but considering our roles were very reversed I was never sure how to put DB into play, anyway.

Tell me what you think. Link in siggie.

thanks.

formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.