Update: W depression is pretty deep. She is not doing well. Does not want to communicate much, although she comes in to my office and says hello in the morning. Other times I think the only thread linking us is the car we are sharing. I am taking the advise of those who know and have been leaving her alone. I am leaving in 2 weeks for three weeks, so I am a bit sure how to handle that. When I get back she wants to file.
Do I just remain distant?
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012