Update:
W depression is pretty deep. She is not doing well. Does not want to communicate much, although she comes in to my office and says hello in the morning. Other times I think the only thread linking us is the car we are sharing. I am taking the advise of those who know and have been leaving her alone. I am leaving in 2 weeks for three weeks, so I am a bit sure how to handle that. When I get back she wants to file.

Do I just remain distant?


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012