H doesn't want anything from the d. He just wants out and I can have everything. He is a liar about the ow.... But I still truly think he is deeply depressed. He said today that he is broken and he isn't taking drugs or going to see a psych dr. Apparently getting help for yourself isn't an idea that makes sense to him...
That is the nature of depression. Depressed males blame their families and look externally for solutions rather than change anything. You can't fight it. Let go. Maybe he will get help in the future or maybe he will look for "magic love to cure depression" in a series of loser OWs. You don't want to watch that. Sorry this is going on. It sounds really hard on you right now.
