still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Good point Gatsby. What would the other spouse say. Yeah- I thought it was weird how no one else seemed to be bitter about their divorce like they didn't want it! But maybe it is the stage I am in.

Anyway, on another note, I was talking to a friend and mentioned how WH was acting when he fed S at our house on Sunday. He said that it is like WH was a (unruly) dog who was let back in the house for a bit, so he was all happy and wagging his tail! lol! My friend suggested that it is ok for "the dog" to occasionally peek inside the house to see what he is missing....so that when he goes back outside he will want the house more.

Sorry to the dog lovers- my friend told me that when I changed the visitation, it was like the dog had been eating up the furniture and peeing on the floor, and despite my previous attempts to get him to stop he didn't. So I had to finally kick him outside to live. He has been hanging his head and his tail is between his legs and he checks with me to see if I will "let him in" or maybe "pet him" or maybe "toss him a bone" He is humbled. Maybe???? Time will tell. It will be 2 weeks of this change in 2 days.