When I say throw reality at her I do NOT mean pursue her.
I mean
1. Ask her to end her affair or leave the home 2. Offer her minimum support and child access 3. Offer her NO emotional interaction from you at all.. YOU ARE A STONE
4. Have people she trusts educate her on the reckelessness and short term viability of infidelity - NOT YOU
5. have people she trusts educate her on the long term adverse impacts divorce has on children
6. Have people she trusts educate her on the character of the man she is pursuing...
Note, she does NOT trust you... have someone she respects (not you) educate her if at all possible
This last avenue of education may not be available to you.
In such case, YOU collect articles and books for your own reading and leave them around the house where she may stumble on them and read them... do NOT make it obvious you are trying to educate her... put them on YOUR desk bookmarked to the pages you want her to read...
And then go out for a walk and wait for her to snoop.. and she WILL SNOOP
