He's Loving the Freedom of the 180 - Now What?

[newmama]

Red I don't see how thegrad student will think less of you. I am imagining that he is fond of you both. Your H is putting him in a high pressure, uncomfortable position. I am sure that the grad student will feel uneasy and guilty if he goes along with your H's wishes.

Like if H asked your kid to take one of mommy's shirts from the closet and put it in the garbage. Your kid loves you both, so he wants to listen to his dad, but at the same time he doesn't want to put the shirt in the garbage because it is his mom's. He does it anyway but feels guilty.

See what I mean? Sorry if that analogy was dumb! lol!