Up til now, almost everything you have said and done has served to feed the exciting drama of the affair. (If you don't know what I mean I can explain it further.)
Yes, please do explain. As I told the coach, his response to my exposures was like swatting a fly with a cannon ball - totally extreme, given THEIR betrayal and total disregard of boundaries.
Also in your tag line, you say that your WS moved in with OW 12/09 and you went dark but started "peeking out" 3/10. Does that mean he regrets moving in with OW and that you're trying to reconcile? Just curious...
You and the coach already figured it out!
And NO! we are no where near reconciliation. I just have my emotions under control so am able to deal with him without it hurting me. A few issues with the kids forced contact, which has led to a few convos about him. He is still with OW in their no-tell ho-tel!! here's my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2000506&page=1
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
