Hey Luv- I've been quiet, but following along...

Originally Posted By: luvless
I was regretting giving him one. He is so nasty towards me why do I care to be nice to him? He has ignored every text and almost every email so what is wrong with me? [quote]

People have asked me this too, though I don't have nearly the A$$ you have (sorry). As long as we don't go too far over the line of being so nice that we're a doormat, the reason we do things like this is b/c we will be able to look back and say- with our heads held high: *I* was not an A$$. *I* was a decent, respectful person, even if my H was not. I kept my integrity and did it without letting him walk all over me- or losing my cool. Your kids will remember this, and so will you, Luv.
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I actually am feeling ok today. I don't have that awful sad feeling so I'm good. I've gotten a lot accomplished today. I feel tired...a little weak/worn out so I'm gonna chill for the rest of the evening. I will watch some tv with my babies...I just love those guys.


I'm glad you had a little window of relief yesterday and were able to get stuff done and enjoy your kids! I hope you have more and more of those days.

Did your L get you protectd money-wise for the short term so H can't be dic*ing around with your $??

-Alice


When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.