Kissak, Hey I just saw today that your H has returned home again. I am so happy for you and this defineltly sounds a lot more like a serious move back home (unlike the many times prior).
I know you had your H bounce back and forth a lot like mine did too. But this really sounds so much better for you guys this time.
My H and I have been back for about 2years now and living together again for about 1 and 1/2 yrs. It is good you made him wait a bit before moving back this time.
The reconciliation process is not easy but it is worth it. I still sruggle with completely forgiving him for everything even though I try really hard - I will still have some reserved anger about past situations (now i just deal with them better). And one other thing is to keep reminding your self of the DB rules we learned here as they will keep us focused on our new reconciled paths. I also struggel with trust from time to time. But he has gotten better about reassureing me.
Hope all goes well with your Reconciliation and I am just soooo happy to here of it. TIPPER
