Tim - I'm 46, he's 51. And I know that part of the problem is that I tend to view sex as "good for whatever ails ya." When I'm stressed out, unhappy, etc., I want sex for comfort. I know that for a lot of people, that's the LAST thing they want. Who knows what they use for comfort, but it isn't sex. And I just have to adjust to that, if I want to keep this relationship.
