Well, I guess that's what it boils down to, is this the person that I want to be with? I have to keep reminding myself that this isn't the person that will return. Eventually they will accept ownership for their part, but it may take a very long time.


M:39 W:37
Together: 16 years
Married: 11 years
Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY)
Moved out: Nov '09
D: 10, 8, 4