Well, I guess that's what it boils down to, is this the person that I want to be with? I have to keep reminding myself that this isn't the person that will return. Eventually they will accept ownership for their part, but it may take a very long time.
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4