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what is really stopping me from giving gifts to his mom - i don't want to give her the satisfaction of shovelling sh*t in my mouth.


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and y'know, when his mom was here, i did buy her something that i knew she liked - despite her ruining my marriage. and all i got in return was snarky, bitchy attitude from her ..


Solution - Boundaries

the moment you stand up for yourself and let people know you won't be treated poorly is so empowering and loving to yourself.

Try it. It works.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.