I am happy this site exists. Thanks for teaching me about the walk away wife.
A few months ago things got tense between wife and I. It was just after Christmas. I also noticed that she was on Facebook like crazy. She started asking me to link our relationship status on Facebook. I was reluctant, I hate people knowing my personal business. I was listed as married and her pictures were on the page. Fast forward to one night in bed and she said "you know you always say if we had extra money it would probably would end it, I am think that's what we should do".
I also started geting more involved in church. Well, we went to bible study and first time in our marriage read the bible in bed. By weeks end, she started changing, wouldn't come to bed and following week went to church w/o me. Well that following Monday, she was off work. I called her for lunch and she went off on me. I came home and the signs were all the there. She had shaved, perfume and late picking up the kids.
Well I found out and she admitted that she went on a date. When I confronted her she then admitted going back to his house and they only kissed. Well, the next day I come home and she texting the guy telling him she loved him if anything ever happened to her. I snatched her phone and read how she was going to leave and take the kids. I asked her to leave for the night so I can spend quality time with kids.
The next day everything hit fan. She said that she was unhappy in marriage and has been. I haven't been the best husband and she doesn't feel loved, etc.... We cried and went to a counselor that same day. She said that she wanted out and didn't want to make it work. She stopped going to counseling after two sessions, I am still there.
I watched movie fireproof and for the past 33 days have been showing love. In addition to my spiritual warfare. Her car note is late, her brakes is bad and she took her paycheck and paid her deposit and rental fee. I am not giving her any money and will share custody of our kids.
The past two days I slept on the couch to get my mind prepared for this seperation. I only struggle should I keep wearing my ring until she moves out. She only want to hang with divorced girlfriends and single moms. Both of our moms are deceased. The o/m is an ex boyfriend, who is a former drug dealer, no kids. Just wondering about the kids.
