Hi,
No at first hubby owned up to very little and I would take my stand that we had equal ownship (not rant and rave, just point it out).
Eventually he has admitted that he was a major contributor. Lure them in and give truth darts. Either pride, foolishness or denial rules with them.
The message will get to them eventually if they want to reconcile. There can be no reconcilliation with out both people owning to their end eventually.
It should happen in the long run or you would have to question if this person is a person you would want to be with.

I think after my hubby had recommited, some time later he admitted ownship. This is after yeaas of stating that I am 100% of the problem, yes, years....

Last edited by june72; 05/11/10 03:02 PM.
M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)