Yea, nm, we have to watch. The danger comes in when we invest emotional energy into what they are doing.

I know he misses me and the kids.

He did not seem to have much interest in the kids tho. DS13 saw him 3 times in 4 months: H went to 2 baseball games (out of 20) and asked him to a movie. In the last 2 weeks, he has asked to see him 3 times. DD's were a bit more demanding and asked to meet him for lunch more. But if they didn't initiate..nothing.

I frequently got "I miss you emails". H has been really good at compartmentalizing since shortly after I found out about the A. (Before that he was full of anger and spewed hostility everywhere)

I am watching with curiosity. I won't let any of his behaviors change my plan. If it doesn't feel good, I won't do it. (allowing H access to me)



"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!"
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