Hey, I think you did really well--your H hung around quite a while on Mother's Day, and the fact that he left quick may have meant he was in trouble! or worried about it!
Good for you for telling H what you wanted--and then getting it! Clear communication!
I don't think you should change too much--you are getting small positives. Work on yourself, if you need to "change things up". Do you have a cute summer haircut in mind? or a sexy new swimsuit? My sister has a suit just waiting for me to come and get it--very, VERY sexy. Totally not going to be what I normally wear. It is still a one piece, but with some interesting "cutouts" she tells me.lol.
