WAW EA via Text Only? Huge Tacticle Mistake!!

[DangerDave]

Thanks everyone for all the info - the problem I have though is I already threatened to expose to the OMW! So have I lost my opportunity and am I stuck now - it's been 4 days since I threw it all out there and the text's and phones between the two are flying - I am thinking if I should lay low for a week or so and let them think I truly think what they have is ok and then blindside them with exposure to the OMW, Friends and Family all in one big exposure day? So I've read the Never warn part - so what now?

Help!!!!