I want him back as an independent, self assured man--not another little boy that I have to contain, control & coddle.
Are you listening, LBHs?? When the wise ones tell you that your WAWs want you to be men, they mean it. We do! Confident, calm, put together, and happy just being himself--if my H showed up at my door to get the kids as that man (like he used to be!), I would not be able to get him off my mind.
That being said, can someone please email my H & clue him in? Thanks.
This is essentially the same ssage that my W has sent to me. I heard it loud and clear and really cleaned up my act. Thanks for the advise. But her reaction is a little less than what I expected. Maybe you could stop by my thread and give me some womanly advise, I would apreciate it. Dazed and Confused...Need Advice!! is the name of the thread, not sure how to link to it.
