How do I save my marriage to husband in MLC?

[RLay1100]

My contact with my H is rare and brief (since Sunday, May2). I no longer text or call him, and when we meet to drop-off/pick-up the kids, I smile, thank him, and that is it. He does end up always asking me if I'm dating, who I'm dating... This I don't understand because he says he hates my guts right now and wants nothing to do with me. If that's the case, why does he even CARE? He has someone else... ::sigh::

I am still having a hard time dealing with the fact he is having a PA (with a 19 YO). What bothers me the most is his telling her he loves her and she's the love of his life. He sweet talks her like he use to me, and I wish he still did. Could he really be in love with her? Is he just saying that to appease her, or make himself feel better...? Is it just the screwed up MLC fog?