Maybe suggest to your W that she go to confession.
Even better call it by it's new name - Reconciliation. To meet again.
I went to see our old Pastor when my sitch turned bad. Did a "reconciliation" and got some advice that was very similiar to what I learned here. I really believe that taking care of myself - physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually was/is a life changer.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
