First thing I thought too. Get a gift for his Mom. Your H is watching you.
that's like telling me to worship the devil.
would she not think that i was trying to 'butter her up' or that it wasn't genuine?
one of the things his parents did say was that they felt they have given us a lot and received so little in return. what they didn't realize was that i was constantly buying dinner. i put thought into making their mother's day and father's day gifts. i made sure those things got there on time. whereas my h was always consumed with work and left that task for me to do. i put more work into their mother's/father's day gifts than into my own mother's/father's day gift!
and y'know, when his mom was here, i did buy her something that i knew she liked - despite her ruining my marriage. and all i got in return was snarky, bitchy attitude from her .. acting as if she had won.
what is really stopping me from giving gifts to his mom - i don't want to give her the satisfaction of shovelling sh*t in my mouth.
