WAS attitude upon return

[AtTheEnd?]

My sitch seems to be steadily improving although it's a continuous up and down thing. One that really gets to me is the attitude at times. The fact that my spouse feels as though she didn't have a part in the breakdown. She says how furious it makes her when I say that both of us had a part in getting us to this point (I know this is not the right thing to do when DBing). I fully acknowledge my part and the great majority of the responsibility in the breakdown, but there were two people involved, and that makes her so angry to think that. I understand she did everything she knew of to not get divorced, and that I was unresponsive. I just didn't understand or hear for whatever reason (typical WAW scenario).

Also, the way she thinks she know people and their motives. That she is some sort of wise individual. I'm not saying that she doesn't know, but to think that you know so much and that you don't need to learn any more about relationships is what is so disturbing.

I know that this isn't that uncommon for the WAS, but I was wondering how other people's experiences were. A friend keeps reminding me that the person you see today is not the person that will come back. What have others encountered here with their WAS?