One more question. It has to do with her family. Particularly mother and father. It's maybe a cultural thing but when I proposed to her and later married her, I promised both of them I would take care of her.
Was thinking of sending a brief note saying this:
Dear Mother in Law/ Father in law
When your daughter and I married, I promised to her in front of you and God that I'd be with her for the rest of my life. Unfortunately, she made decisions that prevent me from keeping that promise any longer. I can accept that I haven't been the perfect husband but I never disrespected your daughter and my marriage. And this is behavior that I simply cannot tolerate.
I'm sorry that things have to end like this. It was never my decision.
Thank you. for your love and support during all these years.
F
Last edited by FormelyknownasF; 05/11/1002:01 PM.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
