It's true. Letting go and moving on is the ONLY way a WAS will ever re-consider their decision. Especially if they have their mind made up.

Remember the story of the castle and the picnic.

Finding a way to be happy a your own and building self respect is the ONLY way they will reconsider.

It's also true that they convince themselves they are "Emotionally Divorced" so they are really not cheating..

Blah Blah. That is why you drop the CONTROL and GUILT and let them hang themselves with all the drop they want.

Stay on the higher paths and drink more Dos Equis my friends ;-)

PMA