Same with me SR... wife was on the PC using chat software and I didn't think anything of it... boy was I a fool.

Computers are a one-way-ticket to infidelity.. they make it so damn easy to cheat... and TEMPTING to cheat...

We were a lot safer before cars, telephones, and computers showed up...

There is a book Danger that you need to buy called Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass.

Here is a quick interview of the content :

http://www.shirleyglass.com/psychologytoday.htm

This book is a classic on infidelity, over twenty years of research went into it. The forward is also written by Michele Davis so you know she's on the boat with what's said in there.

In my opinion if you are in this subforum and only have Divorce Remedy you are walking in here with only half the ammunition you need MINIMUM to deal with something this big.