Have been sweet and charming and non-critical db'ing, but have discovered WH is firmly resolved to make me the villian.
It was nearly 10 pm last night when my oldest daughter reported that some man was banging on our front door. WH was still at work, so I peeked out and saw it was one of his male grad students, one whom I like very much. WH showed up as we were talking to report he'd asked male grad student over to help him move some heavy trash to curb for pickup.
They were in the basement for a long time and I was curious to see what all they were getting rid of, so I was just about to descend the basement stairs when I heard WH making fun of me. I didn't catch all of it because his voice was so low, but I did hear "my wife" and "it's why I'm down here" (sleeping in basement) before the grad student laughed. WH made several other comments I didn't hear with the grad student laughing each time. The last thing I heard was, "Confirm I'm down here, 'kay?"
Confirm to OW that he has moved to basement.
THAT was the real reason he'd asked him over - moving stuff from the basement was just a pretense.
I'm sick about this.
He cheats on me, I expose him...and I'M the bad guy?!
Can someone PLEASE explain what in the hell this man is thinking?!