WAW and the law of attraction

[FormelyknownasF]

You didn't hurt my feelings, don't worry. I said your tone was unnecessary because I can see the reality of the situation. My W has made it very clear to me.

You can't force someone to fall back in love with you, I can't argue with that. But, what it's confusing about your "all or nothing" approach, Robx, is that you're still posting in a board about DB. If we should just accept things and move on, why fight for any of our marriages then?

I never intended to control my W, sorry if I came across as I wanted that. I've been always open to accept the fact that she doesn't love me anymore but not when I know there's OM. All I ever wanted to do was to remove the fog and stating the facts so we both could make an informed and honest decision.

I understand now that whatever fog is left, it's inside her head and there's no way I can reach that. No letter, no chat, no email, will reach that.

It's clear to me that one day, maybe in a month, maybe in 5 years, when all the distractions have past and the party is over, there will be no way to hide. She'll wake up alone with her conscience and will finally be honest with herself about what she did.

God bless her. I hope He helps her find the way back to the kind and loving person she used to be. Not for me - I won't be there- but for herself.