My sitch has changed for a little bit, but I do know that things will not remain this way if the OM is still around.
I do not know what I would tell you to do. What do your heart and instincts tell you that you should do?
I did what Coach suggested to you once with very little results because I was not ready for his advice, and I was not ready to follow through with it whole heartedly. Make sure that when you do take advice that you are ready to follow it because it won't work. You need to make it for you and work for you. Good advice is great, but if you do not understand what it will do or you are not ready, it won't work. If you need some time to make sure, then take it.
You need to be ready to do what is suggested for you.
Perception, understanding, and time change our perspectives on here daily. I have understood what someone told me today as what I should do at a later time. It is so interesting what time will do to you here, and how it will bring understanding of what is being said and why. You will understand when you are ready or accepting, or when your sitch progresses.
I have changed and grown since being here, and you have too.
Find your own style and way of doing things with what others have suggested to you to fit your own situation.
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