What do you do with a WAS who doesn't want anything to do with you? Do you still affair burst? Perhaps they are not seeing correctly due to being in their affair. Hell I don't know.
Thats a real depressing feeling, to know the one you where with wants nothing at all to do with you - and they are consistent in that message.
You accept it and move on with your life. As much as that sucks to hear this and sucks even more to actually do this, that's what you do. Otherwise you exist in limbo pursuing your WAS for months and/or years.
You can't force someone to love you and be with you.
Let go of the person that doesn't value you or the relationship they have with you and spend some time healing yourself and then move on with your life and live a great life.
