Telling Friends to Bust the Affair?

[newmama]

If you want reconciliation, then yikes, maybe not. But folks swear by exposing first, pissing off the WS, and then when the affair ends, supposedly the WS forgives the exposure.

Is there another way the info could leak and not be traced to you? For example, my SIL is next door neighbors with someone my WH works with. If she shared the truth with the neighbor, all the workplace would know and "I" wasn't the one who leaked it.

Could you arrange something like that? Where another party who knows the truth shares the info?