It just hurts so much not being able to tell what you feel. It's like being in jail and not been able to give your side of the story. It's really tough. If I walk away like this, she'll never know how I felt. She may not care to hear, that's her problem. Should that stop me from doing what I feel I need to do to get closure? Is she really going to have the last word on this?
You sound weak, insecure, ineffectual, wussy like and definitely not the kind of man your wife would want to be with.
He doesn’t sound ‘wussy like’ to me. He sounds like a man feeling, and expressing, normal feelings under the circumstances.
Originally Posted By: robx
Think about how you sound and appear to someone when you talk like that.
It's not attractive.
Speaking of unattractive . . . robx, in your posts here today, you come across as a bully who makes himself feel big by kicking a guy when he’s down for a couple of days. IMO, that makes you appear weak and insecure. Do you have the cojones to admit to any vulnerable feelings?
Your stuff about FKA being controlling or selfish . . .
