does that particular advice work best for a LBS who is a man? I'm thinking the dynamics may be different for a woman.
Men spend a lot of time thinking.
So this is why you are advocating changing how they think of us? And you are saying the GAL< the drop the rope, and the agreeing iwth them acheives this? I"m at the point I'll try anything as what I"m doing is not working! Anything else?