I just exposed to about 10 of the OM's FB friends using this letter:
"[OM] is pursuing my wife to have an affair with her since July of last year. My home that was once happy is now wracked with tension, stress, and guilt. My wife and my children are miserable. I ask that you support my wife, my children, and my home and press [OM] to leave my home and family alone. This is a terrible thing to do to innocent children.
Thank you in advance for your help. Ken"
It's getting late (about 10:00) and my wife is still out with the OM. I'm going to put my kids to bed now.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.