YEs, we are lucky with that. FOr the first time in a long time I was clear about what I wanted - and asked for it - pancakes made for me in the morning and some nature time with S "H is invited to come along if he wants" and he did.
HOwever, he beat it out of there at 2:30 and I could only panic about OW.
Despite this I was determined to have a good day with S and I did.
Today not so good. I basically slept the day away. Part exhaustion from a week of rehearsals/performances yesterday, part utter depression - like AVermont said, the crash.
How am I supposed to stay dark with H here so much? I dont' know I can ever impact him as it seems that the successful ones on these forums have had to go months with NC before the WAS makes a turnaround on there own.
I'm so full of grief I could not function for half a day. Then I brushed myself off and enjoyed the rest of the day with S.
PLease - I need new tactics here - help! I can't go to the neighbor's house any more - her MIL owns half the house and is not comfortable with it
Trying to just accept and let him go in my mind, hoping that helps, and he'll feel it but is that just a bit too esoteric?
