DG, you are right to not enable. You are the person who is taking care of your children. Ask for the wisdom to take the right steps for their sakes. Your H is on his own journey now. Your journey is about recovering and being the best mother that you can.

(((DG)))

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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