remember you don't know what they are REALLY thinking luv.

your H is sad. he's sad for a reason. and I'm glad you felt sorry for him

but you just focus on making your life good and good for the kids, do not be rude to your H, just be respectful even if he isn't, but hold onto your boundaries you've made.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."